Only love will help you free yourself from someone who hates
I know that if someone is hurting you and doesn't see that he is doing it, is different when he meets someone who truly loves herself. It's important for a woman to love herself enough to say "enough." I know it's sometimes difficult to do this.
But there comes a moment when, deep inside, you start to feel like you can't go on like this much longer if nothing changes. This moment is sometimes so brutal that there's no way to recover from it if you don't know what to do.
And that's why you need yourself now. Don't wait until it reaches the edge where you can really break down.
Give yourself a chance to know more about yourself now, to know what it means to love yourself and to open yourself up to knowing yourself in love.
Loving yourself is different from what people say who don't know what is knowing a hate of a person that ends up hurting someone who is nice. A person who wants to love must know this.
You can't love hate, because then it is unloving for love. Love needs protection, and it is protection itself. You have to know how to use it.
I learned this after many years in a toxic relationship, where my love was treated with aggression and hatred. It doesn't matter if it's caused by someone's trauma.
If someone hurts you, they don't want to change because they don't love you. They love something else – that you're there for them, and they can take advantage of you and use you as someone who will be there for them, even if they hurt you.
This is not okay. And women should know this. And it's very important that more women know this. And not allow themselves to be taken advantage of.